Friday, March 23, 2012

Braxton's Big Day in Court

Wednesday was such a GREAT day!!! I would equate it to the days I delivered my other babies. 

We arrived at the courthouse around 9:30. Several friends were already there waiting for us along with my Mom, two Great-Aunts, caseworkers and our attorney. 

The judge arrived and looked around and said something about how loved Braxton must be to have so many people there with us. 

It felt so encouraging to literally be surrounded behind and on both sides of the room with supportive friends and family. I felt like they had my back in a sense and were saying..."you can totally do this :)"

Braxton is one awesome little boy!! He had a crummy start, but I know that God has big plans for him.
It is so neat to know that God knew before he was born, before I was born, that we would be a family. 

The judge said some things and gave Braxton many hugs and kisses and then invited us up to his platform for some photos. He announced him officially and forever a part of our D family. 

After the adoption hearing/ceremony we headed to the agency. When we walked in the room all of the agency staff were gathered and clapped for Braxton when he walked in. They gave him a balloon, stuffed animal and had one huge Sesame Street cake. It was a fun, fun time!!! 

We finished our celebrating for Wednesday with a Mexican lunch. Fun times! He loves mexican food.

Now we are gearing up for his big adoption party. We are soooo thankful for many foster and adoptive family friends. It is such a blessing for him to grow up with other adoptive friends he will be able to relate to. 

We felt extremely loved and blessed. It was an awesome day!!














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Wednesday, March 21, 2012

Finally.....

So excited to say that it is finally official :) More pics to come!!


What a wonderful day! We were surrounded by faithful friends and family today who have supported and encouraged throughout this long two-year process. He is officially forever our son. Couldn't be happier and more thankful for the amazing gift he is. I have never met a sweeter, more affectionate boy! What a privilege to be his Mommy.


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Monday, March 12, 2012

Our Crazy Week

Last week was spent recovering from the week before! We had been doing so well this winter as far as sickness goes. Abby was plugging along. She had some pretty huge asthma problems October, November, December and January. We had a ton of testing done because after her attack at the end of October she just wasn't bouncing back. She was having a lot of problems and seemed to also be having some scary side effects from a couple of the steroids.

So, the first week of January we had a massive amount of bloodwork done and several x-rays. The doctor was ruling out Juvenille Arthritis and some auto-immune issues.  We actually managed to meet our deductible for the year already :(. Good and bad. Good because we are done for the most part and bad because we shelled out a lot of cash in just two months.

Almost all of Abby's blood work came back normal. There were just a couple of things that were off that we are looking into a little more. That left us a little confused as to why she was having such a hard time getting back to normal. Appointments were made with new specialists and we waited and waited to get in. Finally in February we saw a new pulmonologist who is supposed to be really good here locally. I told him some of my concerns with her current medication and he took her off a couple and switched doseages on another.

Well, long story kinda short...

She started having trouble last Friday night in the middle of the night. We gave her a couple of treatments at home that were doing nothing at all. Jeremy took her to the ER early Saturday morning and texted me soon after that the doctors were very concerned and I got myself together, got my Mom to watch the others and headed out. When I got there her oxygen was low, her heart was racing and she was working so hard to breathe. They admitted her and treated her for the next 24-hours.

We checked in with our pediatrician on Monday and he and I had a very good discussion about Abby and her plan to get better and stay well. She stayed home from school all week and on Wednesday her teacher stopped by with a balloon and card from all the kids. What a fun treat for her!! She felt so special.



As I talked to her doctor (who has a child with a chronic illness), I realized that sometimes it really is what it is and you just have to cope. That was a good thing for me. I am always trying to fix it; take her to the next doctor; find the newest treatment. Not that anything is wrong with that, but sometimes I just need to do what has to be done for now. Worry about today. You know?

So, we got Abby home and that same day B started coughing so hard he was puking and wheezing. We  took him in on Monday (his birthday) and they started him on treatments. He kept getting worse so I called Tues and Wednesday. I ended up pulling him out of bed Wednesday night and taking him to Urgent Care for a 3 hour visit. His oxygen was low and he was needing treatments. He ended up at the ER and then was admitted for RSV. Good grief! I did love the time spent cuddling with her and caring for him. It was some good bonding time, but I think I would rather do it another way or at least in another place :).

So, things have been hard lately, but I am happy to report that my little people have turned a corner and are doing well!




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Monday, March 5, 2012

Happy 2nd Birthday, Buddy!!!

Last Monday was B's 2nd birthday! Good thing we celebrated early because it ended up being one crazy week around here.

The weekend before his birthday, my brother, sister-in-law and niece came to visit so I thought it was a perfect time for an impromptu birthday party! I literally threw together a pizza party in about an hour. Yay for one stop shopping at the new Kroger. He received lots of fun gifts. Two of his Great-Aunts and Great-Uncles who live around here were able to come and he got a fun new truck and some Elmo videos and books. He loves both.

He also received a special gift from his Great-Aunt Sheila on his actual birthday!


 It brought tears to my eyes and made my heart happy. 

Now he has a quilt from her just like the other three! He loves it and it matches his room. 

We are looking forward to spending all your birthdays with you, Buddy! The countdown is on 16 days til court!!! 

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